This is a debate that has aired in a number of places recently and it has inspired to me share it with you, as I think it is something that comes up quite a lot in the world of autism. So often we are told that we need to prepare people who are on the spectrum for what is going to happen; particularly if there is going to be a change to the usual routine or a big event looming. We can go to town (in a manner of speaking) preparing social stories, putting together photo albums, using role play and good old chat about the change, giving opportunities for questions and discussing feelings.
But for some people on the spectrum this seems to make them more anxious. They have far too many questions for us to possibly answer. So what at first seems like a kind and indeed the right thing to do ends up being an opened can of worms. In fact they may then do all they can to avoid the new event. Perhaps 'surprise' might be a better option and, hey, they may even enjoy it. You could provide a social script at the time of the event just in case.
What are your experiences? Get in touch via Twitter @KarenMTherapies or send me an email to admin@karenmasseytherapies.com and let's discuss this further. I do believe, like anything else, each individual is different and careful consideration of past experiences is really important so that life is as smooth and happy as it can be.
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